ASHA BHONSLE, Singer, on her sister Lata Mangeshkar.
You've achieved a lot considering how formidable a talent your sister is.
I've always given priority to my children and to my music, in that order. I never cared whether I was number 1, 2 or 3. I sang professionally, so I could educate my children. Now I sing for myself.
We remember you once complaining, "But RD didn't give me Raina beeti jaye".
I never questioned him about which songs he composed for Lata didi. He told me which were my songs and I sang them.
But didn't it pinch when RD's Raina beeti jaye or Do nainon mein aanson bhare hain went to Lataji?
No, I had gotten used to it. Madan Mohanji and Roshanji also gave me lovely and successful songs. But, there was always the issue of 'first' and 'second' — Lata ko yeh gaane denge, Asha ko yeh gaane denge.
I don't blame them because my songs became hits. When there was a trend for qawwallis, I sang those. When it was time for cabarets I did them. Waqt ke saath main dhaalti gayi. That's why I am where I am.
What do you think of your songs' re-mixes?
Watching the singers gyrate to our songs in skimpy clothes is unbearable. I just sweep my grandchildren out of the room when these songs are playing on TV. Do they even know what they're doing to impressionable minds?